The fair place to meet is Denver, CO — the city closest to the midpoint of Memphis and Seattle. From the farther side that’s about 21 hr 23 min of driving.
Recommended midpoint
Denver, CO
From Memphis
18 hr 24 min
877 mi to Denver
From Seattle
21 hr 23 min
1,020 mi to Denver
Memphis has the shorter trip; the split is off by about 2 hr 59 min. The alternatives below can even it out. Memphis and Seattle are about 1,863 miles apart.
Memphis and Seattle are about 1,863 miles apart by road. Split the difference and you arrive near Denver, the city closest to the halfway point between them. That puts roughly 18 hr 24 min of driving on the Memphis side and 21 hr 23 min on the Seattle side — the fairest single meeting point among the cities near the middle.
Over this distance most people will fly rather than drive the whole way. Denver still makes a fair, central place for Memphis and Seattle to converge, splitting the travel instead of asking one side to cross the country.
If Denver doesn't have what you're after, Salt Lake City and Albuquerque are also close to the midpoint and worth a look — each keeps the drive reasonably balanced between Memphis and Seattle.
Denver is the capital and most populous city of the U.S. state of Colorado. Officially a consolidated city and county, it is located in the South Platte River valley on the western edge of the High Plains, and is just east of the Front Range of the Rocky… Read more →
Memphis is a city in Shelby County, Tennessee, United States, and its county seat. Read more →
Seattle is the most populous city in the U.S. state of Washington and the Pacific Northwest region of North America. Read more →
City descriptions adapted from Wikipedia (CC BY-SA); photos via Wikimedia Commons, credited above.
Estimates use straight-line distance and typical road speeds; real drive times vary with route and traffic.