The fair place to meet is Denver, CO — the city closest to the midpoint of Charlotte and Seattle. From the farther side that’s about 28 hr 26 min of driving.
Recommended midpoint
Denver, CO
From Charlotte
28 hr 26 min
1,356 mi to Denver
From Seattle
21 hr 23 min
1,020 mi to Denver
Seattle has the shorter trip; the split is off by about 7 hr 3 min. The alternatives below can even it out. Charlotte and Seattle are about 2,281 miles apart.
Charlotte and Seattle are about 2,281 miles apart by road. Split the difference and you arrive near Denver, the city closest to the halfway point between them. That puts roughly 28 hr 26 min of driving on the Charlotte side and 21 hr 23 min on the Seattle side — the fairest single meeting point among the cities near the middle.
Over this distance most people will fly rather than drive the whole way. Denver still makes a fair, central place for Charlotte and Seattle to converge, splitting the travel instead of asking one side to cross the country.
If Denver doesn't have what you're after, Omaha and Kansas City are also close to the midpoint and worth a look — each keeps the drive reasonably balanced between Charlotte and Seattle.
Denver is the capital and most populous city of the U.S. state of Colorado. Officially a consolidated city and county, it is located in the South Platte River valley on the western edge of the High Plains, and is just east of the Front Range of the Rocky… Read more →
Charlotte is the most populous city in the U.S. state of North Carolina. With a population of 874,579 at the 2020 census, it is the 14th-most populous city in the U.S., seventh-most populous city in the South, and second-most populous city in the Southeast. Read more →
Seattle is the most populous city in the U.S. state of Washington and the Pacific Northwest region of North America. Read more →
City descriptions adapted from Wikipedia (CC BY-SA); photos via Wikimedia Commons, credited above.
Estimates use straight-line distance and typical road speeds; real drive times vary with route and traffic.