The fair place to meet is El Paso, TX — the city closest to the midpoint of San Jose and Tampa. From the farther side that’s about 30 hr 38 min of driving.
Recommended midpoint
El Paso, TX
From San Jose
20 hr 3 min
956 mi to El Paso
From Tampa
30 hr 38 min
1,461 mi to El Paso
San Jose has the shorter trip; the split is off by about 10 hr 35 min. The alternatives below can even it out. San Jose and Tampa are about 2,365 miles apart.
San Jose and Tampa are about 2,365 miles apart by road. Split the difference and you arrive near El Paso, the city closest to the halfway point between them. That puts roughly 20 hr 3 min of driving on the San Jose side and 30 hr 38 min on the Tampa side — the fairest single meeting point among the cities near the middle.
Over this distance most people will fly rather than drive the whole way. El Paso still makes a fair, central place for San Jose and Tampa to converge, splitting the travel instead of asking one side to cross the country.
If El Paso doesn't have what you're after, Albuquerque and Austin are also close to the midpoint and worth a look — each keeps the drive reasonably balanced between San Jose and Tampa.
El Paso is a city in and the county seat of El Paso County, Texas, United States. It is the 22nd-most populous city in the U.S., sixth-most populous city in Texas, and the most populous city in West Texas with a population of 678,815 at the 2020 census. Read more →
San Jose, officially the City of San José, is the most populous city in the San Francisco Bay Area and Northern California, and the 13th-most populous in the United States, with an estimated 989,814 residents as of 2025. Read more →
Tampa is a major city on the Gulf Coast of the U.S. state of Florida and the county seat of Hillsborough County. Tampa's borders include the north shore of Tampa Bay and the east shore of Old Tampa Bay. Read more →
City descriptions adapted from Wikipedia (CC BY-SA); photos via Wikimedia Commons, credited above.
Estimates use straight-line distance and typical road speeds; real drive times vary with route and traffic.