The fair place to meet is Raleigh-Durham, NC — the city closest to the midpoint of Miami and New York. From the farther side that’s about 14 hr 38 min of driving.
Recommended midpoint
Raleigh-Durham, NC
From Miami
14 hr 38 min
698 mi to Raleigh
From New York
8 hr 53 min
423 mi to Raleigh
New York has the shorter trip; the split is off by about 5 hr 45 min. The alternatives below can even it out. Miami and New York are about 1,092 miles apart.
Miami and New York are about 1,092 miles apart by road. Split the difference and you arrive near Raleigh, the city closest to the halfway point between them. That puts roughly 14 hr 38 min of driving on the Miami side and 8 hr 53 min on the New York side — the fairest single meeting point among the cities near the middle.
Over this distance most people will fly rather than drive the whole way. Raleigh still makes a fair, central place for Miami and New York to converge, splitting the travel instead of asking one side to cross the country.
If Raleigh doesn't have what you're after, Charlotte and Richmond are also close to the midpoint and worth a look — each keeps the drive reasonably balanced between Miami and New York.
Raleigh is the capital city of the U.S. state of North Carolina. It is the second-most populous city in the state, tenth most populous city in the Southeast, the largest city in the Research Triangle area, and the 39th-most populous city in the U.S. Read more →
Miami is a coastal city in the U.S. state of Florida. It is the second-most populous city proper in Florida, with a population of 442,241 at the 2020 census. Read more →
New York, often called New York City (NYC), is the most populous city in the United States. It is located at the southern tip of New York State on New York Harbor, one of the world's largest natural harbors. Read more →
City descriptions adapted from Wikipedia (CC BY-SA); photos via Wikimedia Commons, credited above.
Estimates use straight-line distance and typical road speeds; real drive times vary with route and traffic.